Intimacy puts one in a position of extreme vulnerability. One can avoid their deepest anxieties and troubles with love and trust.

While it is natural for others, such as Cancer, to commit, Aquarius and Aries prefer to remain uncommitted. Continue reading to learn what makes intimacy so frightening, as well as how to deal with self-doubts in a relationship.

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

Aries, you’re adamant about doing things your way. You have a strong sense of sovereignty within you, and you are afraid of losing it in relationships.

You may be hesitant to tell others how much you need them because you can take care of things so well on your own. Maintaining your independence while also letting others in deeply requires mastering the art of give-and-take. Also, be careful not to ask for too much, too soon.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

Taurus, you know that once you make a commitment, it’s for good. That’s why you take your time when it comes to selecting the right person. When you’re locked in, however, you want things to stay the same for the rest of your life and are adamantly opposed to change.

Your greatest barrier to intimacy – a condition that thrives on constant growth – is your fear of leaving your comfortable rut. Before love can blossom, you must trust that change is good and embrace it with open arms.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

Gemini, you have a tendency to flit around a lot, never settling down long enough to form deep bonds. The fear of becoming bored or hemmed in is designed to keep you on the surface of things, never putting in enough effort to feel committed.

There’s also the nagging fear that your partner will notice the “dark twin” you’ve been trying so hard to conceal. Allowing someone in, on the other hand, shines the light of love into the darkness, resulting in true intimacy.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

Cancer, you’re afraid to reveal your soft underbelly. It happens more frequently than you’d like because your emotions are so close to the surface. You’re at the mercy of your loved one once you’ve been exposed.

Being willing to fall apart, cry, or be vulnerable is actually good for you because you’re more comfortable nurturing others than receiving loving care. In addition, your willingness to reveal yourself enhances intimacy with others.

Leo (July 23 – Aug 22)

Leo, you have a hard time giving up control. Furthermore, your desire to be in charge can keep others at arm’s length. They may be content to let you run the show because you appear to be so capable.

But don’t fall into this trap; in a relationship, sharing power is the key to intimacy. You reveal the true you as you reveal areas where you aren’t as competent. People may be turned off by your quick temper, so practise patience.

Virgo (Aug 23 – Sept 22)

Your intimacy issues, Virgo, stem from a sense of unworthiness. You’re afraid that if you reveal your flaws, others will flee.

No one, however, holds you accountable to the impossible standards you set for yourself. In fact, they’d prefer you to come out and play with them rather than constantly worrying and caring for them. Don’t let your analytical mind overpower your feelings, which is where intimacy’s magic lies.

Libra (Sept 23 – Oct 22)

Libra, you put a lot of effort into making things beautiful and harmonious. As a result, you may have a tendency to brush relationship problems under the rug, allowing them to fester and create distance between you.

It’s about being genuine, not pretending things are perfect when they aren’t. In addition, your sharp mind is adept at deducing feelings without ever experiencing them. You’re afraid of getting into the messy world of emotions, but it’s necessary for intimacy.

Scorpio (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

People may perceive you as threatening at times, Scorpio, which can be a barrier to intimacy. You don’t shy away from intimacy; in fact, you thrive on delving deeply into emotions and confronting problems.

It’s just that your zeal and candour can be too much for some people. They may also think you want too much. On the other hand, you may be afraid of being betrayed if you reveal your deepest feelings. You must learn to trust yourself more.

Sagittarius (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Sagittarius, your zodiac sign, is that of the eternal bachelor. You’re carefree and fancy-free, and you’re always on the lookout for people who get too close to you.

The most significant impediment to intimacy is your perception of commitment as a trap, associated with the mundane and mundane. The solution is to find a partner who will give you a long leash in exchange for your promise to stay for the boring parts.

capricorn (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

Capricorn, you want to be known as the strong one. You are capable, even stoic, but you avoid the realm of emotions and are afraid to show your vulnerabilities. Others may lean on you, but what happens when you require assistance? You must learn to let others love you despite your defences. When you let go of the illusion of invulnerability, caring becomes a two-way street, and true intimacy becomes yours.

aquarius (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Your sign prefers logic to feelings. You’re seen as self-contained, even chilly, and have trouble expressing what’s in your heart.

Because you possess a brighter, quicker mind than most, you think it ought to serve all your needs. You fear losing your freedom if you let others in. Yet to avoid the fate of loneliness, you need to open up and explore the territory of the heart.

Pisces (Feb 19 – March 20)

Pisces, your greatest barrier to intimacy is a lack of self-awareness. You’re such a chameleon, capable of being everything to everyone, that you might not even realise what you really want.

You’ll develop better boundaries and lose the need to rescue or allow those you love to take advantage of you as you spend some time alone, away from their needs and feelings. You’ll also discover a stronghold that encourages true intimacy.