Even if we don’t intend to, we can send the wrong message to the people we care about in subtle ways. Regardless of how attractive you find your wife, your actions may unintentionally send her the opposite message.

Of course, the purpose of this article isn’t to make you feel like the world’s worst husband. Instead, it’s a piece of advice on how to avoid bad habits that might make your wife feel unwelcome.

1. Overly Praising Another Woman

You will make your wife feel self-conscious if you give praise to another woman instead of your wife. While making a passing remark is one thing, obsessing over another woman’s beauty or characteristics is quite another. Before you lavish praise on another woman, think about how your wife would react. To be honest, how would you feel if your wife lavished excessive praise on another man?

2. Looking At Pornography

If your wife discovers that you watch adult movies on a regular basis, she will quickly begin to doubt herself. According to a study conducted by Fight the New Drug, men who were exposed to porn rated themselves as being less in love with their partner.

Men are also more critical of their partners’ appearance when they are exposed to this type of material. So, before you turn on the television, please consider what you’re watching. While it may appear to be harmless, it could have a negative impact on your relationship.

3. Not Initiating Hugs and Kisses

While it’s natural to become comfortable in your relationship and show less physical affection to your partner, it’s a bad habit to keep up. If you don’t show your wife affection outside of the bedroom, she may feel used and unattractive.

4. Obviously Gawking At Another Woman

Your wife doesn’t like it when you stare at other women, even if she doesn’t say anything about it. It is perfectly normal to look at other people, but staring them down is quite another matter. This is not only inconsiderate of your wife, but it is also detrimental to her self-esteem. Consider this: would you want your wife to stare at other men the way you stare at other women?

5. Peeking At Your Phone While Your Sweetheart is Talking

Giving your partner your undivided attention is essential when you’re in a relationship. When you take a quick glance at your phone or the television while your wife is talking, even if you think you’re listening, you’re effectively telling her she’s unimportant. Make full eye contact with her and don’t let your gaze wander away from her while she speaks to you.

6. Forget to Compliment Her Efforts

Your wife values your attention when she takes the time to get dressed up for you or put on new makeup. She expects a thank you or even a small compliment after she spends time preparing a large meal. Take the time to tell her when you notice she’s going above and beyond to make you happy. Even if it’s a minor detail, express your thoughts.

Even the tiniest actions can have a big impact. While it may not seem important to you, make sure you put yourself in her shoes before acting. Everyone, especially their spouse, wants to be appreciated, loved, and wanted. Make a special effort to make her feel wanted because a happy wife equals a happy marriage.